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Miscarriage

It’s heartbreaking to know that a significant number of pregnancies end in miscarriage. Many women feel isolated in their grief, like no one else understands. These posts provide stories of women who have experienced loss, encouragement and practical tips, and resources for grieving parents.

Sunshine Baby & Pineapple Rain (Reflections on Joy and Sorrow)

Rain showers and sunshine. Joy and sorrow. From our home in Hawaii, I often see afternoon rainbows while I stand at our kitchen sink. If I searched the sky, I could probably spot a rainbow every single day since Hawaiian weather mixes sunshine and misty rain clouds perfectly. I love the way that the sun frequently…

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Gift Ideas After Pregnancy Loss

Do you know someone who recently had a miscarriage or stillbirth? Are you wondering how to show that you care? First of all, mail a card. Seeing a handwritten note in the mailbox will brighten your friend’s day. Your words can encourage her heart. Do you want to send a gift? Until recently, I didn’t…

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Remember the Due Date

During the first week of January, a notification repeatedly popped up on my phone’s calendar, and I continued to push it back to another day. Last summer, when I found out that I was pregnant with our son, it delighted me to learn of other “pregnancy buddies.” And then I was saddened when I began…

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It Doesn’t Feel Like Christmas {Grieving from Infertility and Loss}

“Jesus, You are the only One worthy of our hope.” I whispered into the darkness. “And at the end of the day, You’re the one we cling to.” I prayed through my tears that night, resting my hand on my rounded belly. We had learned that our child was no longer living, and we prepared…

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A Personal Update {Stillbirth}

Hello friends, readers, blog followers, Many of you might have seen this already on social media, but I wanted to share some difficult news with you. Many people have shared in our joy this year as we had announced we were expecting a baby in January 2021. This week we share our grief. At 34…

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New Infertility Book Highlights (2019-2020)

I thought I’d take a moment to highlight some recently published books on the topic of infertility and miscarriage. I am thankful for the abundance of resources available these days! You are not alone, even if it feels that way. Keep digging into the stories and faith journeys of other women who have experienced an…

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Pregnant at 40 – Baby Announcement (Our Story: Part 3)

Never a Guarantee Early in our infertility journey, a friend who had struggled to become pregnant said, “Motherhood is a privilege, not a given.” Her words echo in my head. As much as any of us desire motherhood, although we hope and pray, motherhood is not a guarantee. For 7 years (2010-2017) I only saw…

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Barrenness in Beautiful Places

As a writer and a lover of Jesus, I’m always taking note of how God writes the story of my life. The Great Author writes the story with unexpected twists and turns. Plenty of new developments came our way this past year! I was rather quiet on the blog and even on my public Facebook…

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Grieving Twins (Guest Post – A Mama Shares About Miscarriage)

{Trigger warning: this mama shares some details of her miscarriage} As I (Betsy) sit down to post my friend’s story, I realize that exactly one year ago, I was working in a church nursery with her, discovering many things that we had in common. These included our hope of having twin babies one day. “Let’s…

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