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Welcome to my infertility blog

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Hi, my name is Betsy Herman.

Have you been trying to conceive for longer than expected? Do you read an infertility blog for tips to get pregnant?

My story is one of delayed dreams and hope found.
I read infertility books about the best ways to get pregnant, tried the best fertility foods, learned about fertility signs as well as signs of infertility and googled tips on how to get pregnant faster. Women trying to get pregnant often think about how to have a baby or how to get pregnant.

Hopes rise with infertility treatments, eating the best fertility foods or reading tips to get pregnant on an infertility blog. Causes of infertility in women are often unknown, but I can say for sure that God is still good and that He is for me.

In my years of trying to get pregnant I’ve gained hope. And that's a story worth sharing.

This book describes the emotions of trying to conceive, long waits, and crushed dreams. I share of the people who have come alongside me and encouraged me, and I tell of my God who has spoken hope to me.

If you want to understand someone facing infertility...

Or if you are struggling for a breakthrough of any sort...

Or if you’re trying to get pregnant...

Read about my journey of having hope when a situation looks hopeless. I share my personal journey through this book and hope that it will encourage you.

Betsy

Need hope while you wait? Find hope in our infertility story.

 

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What others are saying

A big THANK YOU to Traci McCombs for this amazing video testimonial! Receiving such a review from someone who researches infertility and pregnancy loss for her blog, Road2Motherhood, is a huge blessing.

Her goal is to shine light on the unique infertility or pregnancy loss challenges women face and provide hope and healthy coping mechanisms through a solid foundation in scripture.

Make sure you check out her blog: https://road2motherhood.com

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Emma in the UK

I found my pain begin to subside and peace gradually return to my heart as I read your words and God’s words.

Thank you so much for writing this book, for being obedient to God, for being so open, for walking in faith AND thank you, thank you, thank you for not waiting until your happy ending to finish and publish the book. I am 33 and have been trying to conceive for 4.5 years now, I have "unexplained infertility."

I was desperate and browsing Amazon for some help when I came across your book. I downloaded the book at the weekend and have finished it in two sittings, about half of it has been highlighted and I know I will be going back and back to it. I found my pain begin to subside and peace gradually return to my heart as I read your words and God’s words.

This journey is a hard one, that's for sure but it's help on that journey I need, someone who is also on that journey, not already at the destination yelling back to me about how it is. (Hope that makes sense!) So with all my heart, thank you for making me feel just that little less lonely on this journey.

P.G., Holden, ME

This is so relatable

I feel like I'm reading my own story… Likely all women struggling with infertility, & I think especially unexplained infertility, will recognize themselves in your words, will find hope and will find comfort.

Julie W. in Johnson City, TN

So encouraging

There is power in describing the hope that you have in this hard place without seeing the promise fulfilled…Thank you for sharing your journey because it is so encouraging to me.

Juliana in Virginia

So inspiring!

I’m a Christian, and in 2009 I was engaged, and my doctor told me it would be extremely hard for me to get pregnant. I got married, and we are going to celebrate our 10th anniversary in October.

I love kids and I always wanted to be a mom and through all those years I’ve always avoided this subject. I thought it was easier this way. Until last year, I was 34 years old, and decided I couldn’t run away from it anymore.
I was looking for fertility treatments, and before I did anything I prayed to God to show me the way. And He clearly said to me: Don’t do anything, just wait. He hadn’t promised me a baby, but I knew that I should keep waiting.

At that time I started a Bible Study in my church, I was sharing my struggles in waiting and not having control, but I didn’t share what was the subject. The next person that started talking was a woman who shared your story, I couldn’t help myself but started crying desperately, I could feel God using your story through her at that moment. She recommended me your book, and I read all the pages with tears in my eyes, I could relate to you in so many situations.

Today I’m 20 weeks (naturally) pregnant with a baby boy. God is faithful and His love amazes me every day.

Thanks for sharing your story, it was so inspiring to me.

J. P. in Durham, NC

This book helps in having faith

The Lord has given you an extraordinary gift of faith. Not only do you continue to believe for yourself, but you encourage others who are struggling with the same thing. [...] This book is just one more example and testimony of faith, and I believe that God will use your obedience to minister to so many hurting women.

Recent Blog Posts

They Quit Praying, But God Still Answered

By Betsy | September 3, 2021

While writing a blog post with a similar theme, I remembered that I had published this on my other blog years ago. A fun discovery is that I published this post exactly three years before my daughter was born. The summer when I was 21, I packed my bags with…

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Holding Me Together (After Stillbirth)

By Betsy | August 30, 2021

One Saturday in January, around the time of our baby’s due date, I stepped into my daughter’s bedroom – the room that was supposed to be our children’s room. When our baby boy, Noah, suddenly died in the womb only five weeks before we were supposed to meet him, his…

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Don’t Just Cry – Go Ahead and Lament

By Betsy | August 19, 2021

I turned around to look at our 2-year-old daughter in the backseat as I heard her telling herself, “Don’t cry.” “Oh baby, you can cry when you’re sad or mad or upset,” I said. “In fact, I want you to cry when you feel that way.” I realized just how…

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First Anniversaries

By Betsy | May 14, 2021

This month has held many firsts. This month, I experienced my first Mother’s Day since our son died. I went to the first baby shower I have attended in a very long time. For first time since holding my stillborn baby, I held a friend’s newborn. I remembered the first…

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Fight for Your Family

By Betsy | April 20, 2021

This week I’m thinking about a Bible verse that I want to share with you. In fact, I’m praying these words for both you and for me as I write. Friends, I encourage you to FIGHT FOR YOUR FAMILIES. Nehemiah 4:14 says, “Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome,…

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Unfulfilled expectations, unanswered prayers, financial hardships, unwanted singleness, and heartbreaking infertility - these unmet longings are just a few of the barren places people experience. This book serves as an encouragement to all those who experience(d) barrenness.

 

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